Everyone simply doesn’t want to look the same as others, in their thoughts, in their believes, furthermore in their acts. We are not trying to look different from others, we are just trying to be who we are. Somehow, I feel like I lost my own identity every times when I was surrounded by my friends. I've always been struggling to fit in. But I don't feel that when I am alone.
You may choose to spill out every shit. But then you are being the disgraced one. Keep yourself together, your thoughts with you, your words in you. Others may not need to know nor understand what the hell you are doing with your life. If you are trying not to hurt others, chances are, you are going to need to hold yourself back a bit. A little training here and there would not hurt. Well, at least you will need to start somewhere, won’t you?
p/s- this post has nothing to do with my life here. This is just my thoughts. No intention to hurt anyone. =) peace!